
Starts With the Work Nobody Names
August 22, 2025
Gen Z Doesn’t Want Perks. They Want Power.
August 1, 2025Every workplace has its own quiet truths. The ones nobody writes in reports but
everybody knows. You hear them in the coffee break chats. You feel them in the silence
after a tough meeting.
They are not about rumours or drama. They are about the small moments that decide
whether people feel they belong here. A missed thank you. An idea left unheard. A
personal struggle brushed aside because “we are at work.”
If we want engagement to mean something real, HR needs to see these moments for
what they are: signals that tell us where culture is cracking and where trust is built.
Why Ignored Truths Matter
When something is ignored at work, it does not fade away. It sits there. It grows. And
one day, it starts showing up in ways you cannot miss.
A team that has been stretched for too long stops raising their hand in meetings. A new
joiner who has been left out of small conversations decides it is easier to keep to
themselves. Someone who cannot see a future here quietly starts looking for another
job.
These are not dramatic moments. They are quiet shifts. And by the time they are visible
in an exit interview or a drop in performance, the damage is already done.
I have seen how quickly trust can slip when people feel unseen. Fixing it later takes
more than a policy or an engagement activity. It starts with noticing the signs early and
showing people you are paying attention. That is how culture is protected.
Truth #1 – Emotional Fatigue Is Real
People do not walk into work as blank slates. They bring their whole lives with them:
the good, the heavy, and everything in between.
I have seen employees show up to work while caring for their aging parents, managing
health scares, or dealing with financial strain. And still, they are expected to perform like
none of it exists. Some do, for a while. But slowly, you see it. The spark dims. The
energy drops. They are still here, but they are not fully present.
This is emotional fatigue. It can look like someone avoiding eye contact in meetings. Or
saying “fine” every time you ask how they are, even when they are not.
When HR notices this early, small actions can change everything. A private
conversation, a little flexibility, even the simple act of listening without rushing to a
solution. Those moments tell people they matter. That is what keeps them going.
Truth #2 – Inclusion Is More Than Diversity Metrics
I have seen workplaces celebrate their diversity numbers with pride. Different passports,
different languages, different backgrounds, all neatly presented in a report. On paper, it
looks impressive.
But inclusion is not built on paper. It is built in the small, daily moments when people
feel they belong. I have met new employees who moved countries for a role and months
later still spent lunch alone. Not because anyone was unkind, but because no one
thought to pull up a chair and say, “Come join us.”
This is where the gap lies. Inclusion is not a policy you read once a year. It is how we
welcome someone on their first day. It is whether a manager notices when a team
member is sitting quietly in a meeting and invites their voice in.
HR can help close that gap. Simple actions work. Pair new joiners with buddies. Host
cultural exchange lunches. Encourage leaders to check in on more than just work
progress. These are not big-budget changes. They are small everyday gestures that
make people feel they are part of something worth showing up for!
Truth #3 – Recognition Is a Daily Language
When I think about the people I have seen leave good jobs, it is rarely about the money.
More often, it is because they felt invisible.
Someone stays late, solves a problem, saves a client relationship… and the day just
moves on. No one pauses to say, “That was good work.” Over time, that silence starts to
weigh on people.
Recognition is a habit. It is looking up from your screen and telling someone, in the
moment, that what they did mattered. It does not have to be a big speech. Sometimes it
is just eye contact and a genuine thank you.
I have seen how that changes a person’s day. And if it changes their day often enough, it
changes how they feel about being here.
Truth #4 – Career Conversations Are Rare
I talk to so many people who tell me they are unsure about their future here. Not
because they do not care, but because no one has asked them what they want next.
Too often, the only time this comes up is during an annual review. By that point, the
decision to stay or leave is already made in their mind.
This should not be a once-a-year moment. It should be part of how we work. A short
chat over coffee. A check-in after a project ends. Just making time to ask, “Where do
you see yourself going, and how can we help you get there?”
When people can see a path, they walk it with you. When they cannot, they start looking
elsewhere. It really is that simple.
The HR Shift – From Reactive to Proactive
HR often gets pulled into fires that need putting out. A sudden resignation. A conflict in
a team. A complaint that cannot wait. Those things will always happen.
But if all the energy goes into reacting, there is no space to prevent those fires in the
first place.
The truths I have shared are not impossible to address. They are small, consistent
actions that build trust over time. The more we notice them early, the less we have to fix
later.
Proactive HR is about looking closer. It is asking better questions. It is paying attention
to the signals before they turn into problems. That is how culture stays healthy.
You know what I keep telling people?
The stuff we ignore now is exactly what comes back to bite us later. And it’s never the
big, flashy problems first, it’s the small, human ones. The ones we see but don’t say out
loud.
That’s why with Inspire, I’m not here to give companies another event or a box-ticking
exercise. I’m here to help leaders actually see what’s going on with their people and fix it
before it spirals. It’s not about doing more, it’s about doing it better.
If you want to have that kind of conversation, go to www.weinspire.ae or just book a slot here:
We’ll talk, and we’ll see what’s possible.
